Tuesday, August 4, 2009

The Empty Jar And 2 Cups of Coffee




When things in your life seem, Almost too much to handle, When 24 Hours in a day is not enough, Remember the story of the empty jar and 2 cups of coffee.


A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students, If the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar.

He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.
He then asked The students again If the jar was full..
They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full.
The students responded with an unanimous 'yes.'

The professor then produced Two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents Into the jar, effectively Filling the Empty space between the sand.
The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, As the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that This jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - God, family, children, health, friends, and favorite passions – things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter Like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else -- The small stuff.

'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

So...

Pay attention to the things That are critical to your happiness.

Play With your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.


There will always be time
To clean the house and fix the disposal.

'Take care of the golf balls first -- The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a cup of coffee with a
friend.'

PLEASE REMEMBER THIS…WORK IS IMPORTANT BUT NOT AND NEVER MORE THAN GOD, HEALTH , FAMILY AND FREINDS……SO IF SOME OF U ARE WORKA HOLICS OR THINK THAT U ARE IMPORTANT TO WORK……U ARE SO NOT LIVING UR LIFE THE RIGHT WAY…. … REORGANISE UR LIFE…..

WORK COMES AND GOES , LIFE DOESN’T……

Monday, August 3, 2009

Always Follow Your Dreams


There were once 2 brothers who lived on the 80th level. On coming home one day, they realized to their dismay that the lifts were not working and that they have to climb the stairs home.


After struggling to the 20th level, panting and tired, they decided to abandon their bags and come back for them the next day. They left their bags then and climbed on. When they have struggled to the 40th level, the younger brother started to grumble and both of them began to quarrel. They continued to climb the flights of steps, quarreling all the way to the 60th floor.

They then realized that they have only 20 levels more to climb and decided to stop quarreling and continue climbing in peace. They silently climbed on and reached their home at long last. Each stood calmly before the door and waited for the other to open the door.

And they realized that the key was in their bags which was left on the 20th floor


This story is reflecting on our life...many of us live under the expectations of our parents, teachers and friends when young. We seldom get to do the things that we really like and love and are under so much pressure and stress so that by the age of 20, we get tired and decided to dump this load.

Being free of the stress and pressure, we work enthusiastically and dream ambitious wishes.

But by the time we reach 40 years old, we start to lose our vision and dreams. We began to feel unsatisfied and start to complain and criticize. We live life as a misery as we are never satisfied. Reaching 60, we realize that we have little left for complaining anymore, and we began to walk the final episode in peace and calmness.

We think that there is nothing left to disappoint us, only to realize that we could not rest in peace because we have an unfulfilled dream ...... a dream we abandoned 60 years ago.

Saturday, August 1, 2009


It is possible to fail in many ways
While success is possible in only one way ..






Worry Doesnot Empty
tomorrow of Sorrow...
It Emptiestoday of
its Strength...








This Thing that we call 'failure'
is not the
falling down
But
the Staying Down










Its not who u r
that Holds u back...
Its who u
think u r not...










How a Man
plays a Game
Shows something of his
Character ...
How he loses
Shows all of it..







The Ideas that have
Lightened my way
has been
Kindness...
Beauty...
& Truth...

The Longest Journey of
Any Person
Is the Journey Inward...
We r told never to cross the bridge untill we come to it...
But this world is owned by men
Who hav crossed bridges in their imagination
Far ahead of the crowd...
Self Confidence Is
the First Requisite
to Gr8 Undersatndings..

The Only way of Finding
the limits of the possible
Is by Going beyond them
Into the Impossible..

To the world
You may be One Person..
But
To one person
You may be the world..

Friday, July 31, 2009

Care & Affection is
not a Business where u give ,
when u get..!
It is a Beautiful feeling
for someone where u
love to give even
if u dont get ..!

Friday, July 24, 2009

~The Law Of Attraction~

Dear friends,

You create your reality with your thoughts, words and visions. I encourage you to choose to think only the most beautiful thoughts, speak only those things you want to come to pass and to create the most powerful visions of your future success. Your happiness depends on what you choose to say, think and imagine. I know you will choose well.

Xenia

N.B. When you finish with reading the article below watch the movie " I Create Reality":
http://www.icreatereality.com/CW_Movie3.swf

“The conditions of your life are a reflection of
what you hold in the innermost creative center
of your being
.”

When you look up into the night sky, you see stars. Or, so it seems. Actually, these stars are not really there. They burned out a long time ago, but it’s only now that the light from these stars has traveled far enough to reach our eyes—to be perceptible to our physical senses.

What you see when you look at the night sky is the effects of creations that have long since past, creations made a long time ago. If you want to know what is really there right now; if you want to know the reality of the night sky, the truth, then, you must close your eyes, look into the future and imagine.

And so it is in life.

We look around at the conditions of our life and believe that we are seeing and feeling creations happening now, experiencing people, events and things that are being created in this moment. But the truth is, the conditions of our life are just the effects of creations that have long since past, thoughts made and entertained a long time ago. It’s just that, it is only now that energy of these past thoughts has evolved enough to be perceptible on a physical level.

If you want to know what is actually being created in your life, right now; if you want to know the truth, you must look inward and imagine, for what you think now, will be the people, events and things you experience tomorrow.

So, what do you imagine?

What are you thinking about right now?

What creations are you releasing into the world today?

Wait! Don't tell me.... your answer will be apparent soon enough.

Question: How does one get past
thinking I never have enough money to get
past just surviving?

We move past what we don’t want by embracing a clear, energized vision of what we do want.

In order to move past thinking about lack and limitation, we need only do one simple thing: choose to do so. We are creating our reality. Read this again. We must make a definite decision to live the reality we desire. A definitive decision is one that involves the whole of our being. We must think, feel and act according to the life we truly desire to experience, right now.

This is where it starts. Make a decision to embrace the life you truly desire.

So, the simple answer is to say, “Stop!” Stop thinking you never have enough money, love, friendship, health or security and start thinking about the reality you desire. Realize that your life startsnow. Make a decision to stop thinking about the past. In the past, you had barely enough money to scrimp by. That is done. Choose a new beginning and turn your thoughts to what you will, here and now.

The truth is, we keep repeating the past, because we keep projecting it into the future. We experience lack, suffering and insufficient funds in the present and believe and expect the same in the future. And so, without realizing it, over and over again, we make our future the same as our undesirable past.

I cannot say this enough: wealth, or anything else for that matter, does not come from the outer world. Wealth must first be introduced into our inner life, into our thoughts, feelings, actions—our desires, words, actions, facial expressions, gestures and looks. How we live must change before material change can take place.

It makes no sense to look around us at the material world and say, “This is my reality.” This is not reality! This is the material representation of your past thoughts. If your past thoughts have been centered on lack and limitation then so will be the material expression of your life. For emphasis then, let me say again, we cannot allow creations born of past thoughts to dictate our current choices, our thoughts now, in this moment.

You have the power to choose, now, what you will. You have the power to live, right now, according to your desires.

Do not allow your physical senses to dictate your reality, because your physical senses only convey the past. We choose our reality and that choice in not dependent upon past creations, the people, events and things that our physical senses are relaying back to us.

So, do not look to the material world, a reflection of past creations, and rely on this information to choose your reality. “This life is your playground, your classroom, your gift.” Dream it!

Project onto the world a clear, detailed vision of the life you desire to experience right now.

How do you do this? You must start. Decide to familiarize yourself with your desires—all that you are willing to accept into our life, believe, expect and love about yourself and your life. You must then explore these elements so that, ultimately, you expand on each, expand your personal pattern of possibility, and continuously embrace a greater reality—or, more accurately, come to identify with the greater reality that already exists within you!

We must use our thoughts to project ourselves into the future and experience the material reality of our desires in advance of manifestation. Think about this: when you imagine holding someone in your arms, imagine your sweetheart, you experience a moment of joy in your thoughts. You feel the moment in your body. You smile and act according to your vision. In every way, in thought, feeling and action, you enjoy your envisioned reality in advance of its material certainty. This we must do. In this way, your future is already come true, because you are already living it in thought, emotion and action. If you live now as you truly desire, you live in advance of a future that is an absolute certainty.

We must live in advance of the material future we desire. And to say that we must live, is to say that we must experience our reality in thought, emotion and action. We must “be” as we desire.

Let go of all unwanted thoughts. Embrace only those thoughts that move you in the direction of your desired reality.

When you do this, when you live your desire now, even though it may not have the material reality you crave as yet, you know, with absolute certainty that it does exist in a subtler form of reality, in the subtle substance of thought, because you are experiencing that reality.

We cannot allow negative thoughts and feelings to take command of our energy. We must be aware of the currents of thought that flow through us and in the moment that an unpleasant image or idea enters our being, we must arrest it, replace it with all that benefits our life and so, transform lesser energy into the most beautiful and luminous energy of our source that runs through all that is and continuously molds and shapes the conditions of our lives.

It is so easy for us to engage in house cleaning or go for a drive or a walk and all the while, part of our mind is steeped in negative thoughts and feelings. And this can go on for hours without us ever noticing or being aware that it is happening.

Observe what is going on inside of you. Live in a state of creative awareness and never allow negative elements to accumulate and take command of you. You must be vigilant and hold only to the thoughts, feelings and actions that celebrate the life you desire. If you do this, it soon becomes a habit to live the reality of your choosing and it takes no more conscious thought or analysis than is required now, to drift through day to day existence, vacillating between what you want and what you don’t want. How much more wonderful to drift through a dream, already experiencing the beautiful future that is in store for you?

You have the power to tune your thoughts into the program of your choosing, just as you might turn a radio dial. Nothing is easier. The universe is miraculous in its simplicity. Decide for what you will. Embrace it, and only this, and do so consistently. Consistency is key! The more you live your desires, the more real they become to you. The more real they become, the more you accept them. The more you accept them, the more you detach from hope and wishing and experience the absolute certainty of thought. In this way, your desires evolve quickly to a physical level, because they receive a steady stream of energy; higher-level energy, energy quick to respond and transform.

From now and on, awake and say, “Whatever was is gone.” “This is what I will…Today, I move only in the direction of greatest benefit. I think only of benefit. I feel what benefits me. I speak, move and act according to what benefits my life. I live benefit.”

Do this, and there is no need to worry about whether or not your thoughts and feelings will materialize.

- Alme


Thursday, July 23, 2009

Love Means

(A girl and guy were speeding over 100 mph on a motorcycle)

Girl: Slow down. I'm scared.

Guy: No this is fun.

Girl: No its not. Please, its to scary!

Guy: Then tell me you love me.

Girl: Fine, I love you. Slow down!

Guy: Now give me a BIG hug. (Girl hugs him)

Guy: Can u take my helmet off and put it on? Its bugging me.

In the paper the next day: A motorcycle had crashed into a building because of break failure. Two people were on the motorcycle, but only one survived.
The truth was that halfway down the road, the guy realized that his breaks broke, but he didn't want to let the girl know. Instead, he had her say she loved him, felt her hug one last time, then had her wear his helmet so she would live even though it meant he would die.



When God leads you to the edge of the cliff,
trust Him fully and let go,
only 1 of 2 things will happen-
either He'll catch you when you fall,
or He'll teach you how to fly!