The Power of Three Little Words

Some of the most significant messages people deliver to one another often come in just three words. When spoken or conveyed, those statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled. The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship.

I'LLBE THERE - Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and to us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. 'Being there' is at the very very core of civility.

RESPECT YOU - Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that

another person is a true equal. It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a relationship.

I MISS YOU - Perhaps more marriages could be salvaged and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other, "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.

MAY BE YOU'RE RIGHT - This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring
frayed emotions. The flip side of "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting "maybe I'm wrong."

I THANK YOU - Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

COUNT ON ME - "A friend is one who walks in when others walk out," Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those who are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there, indicating "you can count on me."

LET ME HELP - The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

I UNDERSTAND YOU - People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting others know in so many little ways that you understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship.

GO FOR IT - Some of your friends may be non conformists, have unique projects and unusual hobbies. Support them in pursuing their interests. Rather than urging your loved ones to conform, encourage their uniqueness-everyone has dreams that no one else has.

PLEASE FORGIVE ME - Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures.

I suppose the 3 little words that you were expecting to see have to be reserved for those who are special; that is I LOVE YOU.

The Most Precious Possesion That Comes To

a Man In This World Is The Woman's Heart

Struggle A Little

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PERCEPTION

One day a father and his rich family took his son to a trip to the country with the firm purpose to show him how poor people can be.

They spent a day and a night in the farm of a very poor family. When they got back from their trip the father asked his son, "How was the trip?"

"Very good Dad!" "Did you see how poor people can be?" the father asked.

"Yeah!"

"And what did you learn?"

The son answered, "I saw that we have a dog at home, and they have four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of the garden, they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lamps in the garden, they have the stars. Our patio reaches to the front yard, they have a whole horizon." When the little boy was finishing, his father was speechless.

Have You Ever Seen Rocks Pray?

This is AWESOME! Tilt your head to the left to see the picture.

You will be amazed at what you see..

Even Rocks Pray ...but do humans ?

Humanity? Teamwork? Equality among all?

It was a sports stadium.

Eight Children were standing on the track to
participate in the running event.

* Ready! * Steady! * Bang !!!

With the sound of Toy pistol , all eight girls started running.

Hardly have they covered ten to fifteen steps , one of the smaller girl s slipped and fell down ,
due to bruises and pain she started crying .

When ! other seven girls heard this sound , stopped running, stood for a while and
turned back , they all ran back to the place where the! girl fell down.

One among them! bent, picked and kissed the girl gently and enquired
' Now pain mus! t have reduced' .

All seven girls lifted the fallen girl , pacified her, two of them held the girl firmly and

they all seven joined hands together and walked together and reached the winning post.

Officials were shocked . Clapping of thousands of spectators filled the stadium.

Many eyes were filled with tears and! perhaps it had reached the GOD even!

YES. This happened in Hyderabad [ INDIA ], recently!
The sport was conducted by National Institute of Mental Health .

All these special girls had come to participate in this event and they are spastic children .
Yes, they were mentally retarded Challenged .


What did they teach this world?

Teamwork?

Humanity?

Equality among all?????

Successful people help others who are slow in learning so that they are not
felt far behind. This is really a great message... spread it!

We can't do this ever because we have brains!!!!!!!!!

Virtue of things in Life

Let all understand what is known as " LIFE ..Jus a Sample

Shelter

Education

Care

Food

Entertainment

Why the difference ?

Be thakful for what u have and help those who don't !!!

Jus Quotes

Life is too short to wake up with regrets..

So love the people who treat you right.

Love the ones who don't ...just because..." you can"

Believe everything happens for a reason.
If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands.
If it changes your life, let it.
Kiss slowly.

Forgive quickly.

God never said life would be easy. He just promised it would be worth it.

Believe while others …

Believe while others are doubting.
Plan while others are playing. 
Study while others are sleeping. 
 Decide while others are delaying.
 Prepare while others are daydreaming.
 Begin while others are procrastinating.
 Work while others are wishing.
 Save while others are wasting. 
 Listen while others are talking.
 Smile while others are frowning. 
 Commend while others are criticizing.  
 Persist while others are quitting.
~By William Arthur Ward

The Butterfly...

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared. He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could, and it could go no further.

So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon.

The butterfly then emerged easily. But it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings.

The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time.

Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It never was able to fly.

What the man, in his kindness and haste, did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were God's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives. If God allowed us to go through our lives without any obstacles, it would cripple us.

We would not be as strong as what we could have been. We could never fly!

I asked for Strength.........

And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong.

I asked for Wisdom.........

And God gave me Problems to solve.

I asked for Prosperity.........

And God gave me Brain and Brawn to work.

I asked for Courage.........

And God gave me Danger to overcome.

I asked for Love.........

And God gave me Troubled people to help.

I asked for Favors.........

And God gave me Opportunities.

I received nothing I wanted ........

I received everything I needed!

Trust in God. Always !

Hold the hand...

Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,
'Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.'
The little girl said, 'No, Dad. You hold my hand.'
'What's the difference?' Asked the puzzled father.
'There's a big difference,' replied the little girl.

'If I hold your hand and something happens to me,
chances are that I may let your hand go.
But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens,
you will never let my hand go.'

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.

So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...

Oh My Pretty Pretty Boy !!

A Cute Flash Presentation For the One I Love the Most !

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Before you...

Before you think of saying an unkind word

Think of someone who can't speak

Before you complain about the taste of your food

Think of someone who has nothing to eat

Before you complain about your husband or wife

Think of someone who's crying out to God for a companion

Today before you complain about life

Think of someone who went too early to heaven

Before you complain about your children

Think of someone who desires children but they're barren

Before you argue about your dirty house; someone didn't clean or sweep

Think of the people who are living in the streets

Before whining about the distance you drive

Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet

And when you are tired and complain about your job

Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another

Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down

Put a smile on your face and thank God you're alive and still around

Life is a gift Live it... Enjoy it... Celebrate it... And fulfill it.

It Isn't Love, it's like ..

For all you people who say "I love you" when you haveno clue what love is exactly!!! something to ponder upon.....

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest??

It isn't love, it's like

You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right??

It isn't love, it's lust.

Are you proud, and eager to show them off??

It isn't love, it's luck.

Do you want them because you know they're there??

It isn't love, it's loneliness.

Are you there because it's what everyone wants??

It isn't love, it's loyalty.

Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand??

It isn't love, it's low confidence.

Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them??

It isn't love, it's pity.

Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat??

It isn't love, its infatuation.

Do you pardon their faults because you care about them??

It isn't love, it's friendship.

Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of??

It isn't love, it's a lie.

Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake??

It isn't love, it's charity.

It is love :

Does your heart ache and break when they're sad??
Then it's love.

Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong??
Then it's love.

Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it
hurts??
Then it's love.

Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there??
Then it's love.

Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are??
Then it's love.

Would you give them your heart, your life, your death??
Then it's love.

Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for?

This torture, this powerful death of self? Why?

The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is such an addictive thing that even people who are not having it wish to experience it and share it with others as well.